Day 3

1. Pursue me. All you have to do for this is call me, text me or ask me on the date. If I have to chase someone all the time I will give up because Im guessing you don't want me around.

2. Understand that I am very uncomfortable with new attention, It will take me some time to warm up to you. Be persistent.

3. Listen to me talk, I am generally the listener, its nice to have the opportunity to talk, about something real not the hows the weather shit.

4. Eat my cooking with joy. I love to cook and love to feed people, show that you appreciate the time I spent.

5. TBA

6. TBA

7. TBA

8. TBA

I dont mean to flak out on this post, but I honestly don't know. I don't feel like my heart has ever been won. I feel like I more have given my heart without prompting. I have not had someone court me, at least not successfully. I hope to be able to finish this list someday, hopefully soon.

Even when I change the focus of it in my mind to people who have won my heart in a friend way or in any other non romantic way, I don't know. I am very maternal, and if i can take that feeling on for a group of boys like my crew I do. They are my kids and I don't think they know it.

All the friends I have there has been some kind of bonding, now a winning of friendship. Maybe Piper, she was always very persistent. She use to annoy me out of my mind, somehow we pushed through that. You and I bonded in theatre. As you know well a theatre environment forges bonds much quicker and more intense then in the regular world.

Ill keep thinking about this and update as I come up with it.