I also believe it is possible to love just about anyone. Finding a companion is more about finding someone that you can life in harmony with then someone that you burn with passion for. Now if this person has both those qualities, you are a lucky soul.
I look around and see people making there lives on there own. Content with there lives, no need for a partner. and I see people lonely in relationships. and those in between. Those who have made mistakes and lost their love. or who are too afraid to take a chance and isolate them selves from the world.